Quietly, Quietly, Quietly Making Noise…since 1995

It’s Really That Easy!

switch.jpgBased on very minimal research, the light switch seems to have been invented over 100 years ago. It is the easiest device that I can think to use…you push it up if you want the lights “on” and you push it down if you want the lights “off.” For the seriously lame, who do not recognize the change from darkness to light, they’ve made it super easy and preprinted these switches with the words “on” and “off.” Really, if you struggle with directions on a light switch, there are probably bigger issues in your life, but that is not the purpose of this post!

Energy output? Well, I’m not sure what the caloric output is involved with a flick of a finger tip, but I’m sure it’s pretty low (down on the list near blinking or swallowing). Actually, I don’t think you even need to flick the switch, because I often just rub my hand down the wall until the light goes out. Either way, energy output is a non-issue!

Location? Also not an issue. It’s not like we hide light switches in our house. No, we typically put them right on the wall at hand height, conveniently located near the door for you to flick on your way in and out…

Memory? My kids always remember to turn the lights on when they enter a dark room, so it can’t be memory.

So, can someone tell me why I find well lit empty rooms throughout my house every single day? Spare me any comments about how I sound like my dad. For those of you that know my dad, he has used automatic motion-detector light switches for the past 25 years. I’ve commented in the past that he always looks like a wounded seagull walking around his house as he attempts to get the motion detector lights to “notice” him.

Quietly making noise,
Fletch

Updating theMT

Kendra is gone for the weekend with two of the MangoKids. They gave her a trip to Disneyland for Christmas (yes, I’m stretching it when I say “they gave” since they can’t drive and really can’t afford the accomodations, tickets, etc…).

Anyhow, I’m home with a smattering of other Fletcher kids and using my late nights and early mornings for updating theMT…deleting posts…updating a few pages…changing the look…

It basically involves a lot of black coffee and red vines!

Quietly making noise,
Fletch

On my iPod – Artists beginning with “B”

Here’s what I have queued up…agree…disagree? Tell me your favorites!

B-52s“Woo…stay away fools, ’cause love rules at the Love Shack!” One of my favorite memories of college was being at my best friend Eric’s apartment off-campus for a Love Shack party. To this day, I can’t hear that song without thinking of those good times.

Barenaked Ladies“If I had a million dollars, I’d buy you an exotic pet, like a llama or an emu.” Fun song, fun band.

The Beatles“It was 20yrs ago today…” Thanks to Mangoboy #2, I am loaded with Beatles songs on my iPod. Loving the re-listen to the fab-four. I personally like their trippy stuff, because I think that was when they were musical geniuses. But, I’ll still get up and boogie Ferris Bueller style when “Twist and Shout” is played…

Big Tent Revival – This was THE band that turned me back around to Christian music back in the mid-90s. After having loved the Christian rock bands of the 80s (Undercover, Altar Boys, etc…), it seems like we hit a dry spell. “Two Sets of Joneses” is a constant replay on my speakers.

Bob Marley – Another throw-back to college days. I don’t know anyone that did not have Marley’s “Legend” album in my dorm. “Don’t worry…about a thing…every little thing is gonna be alright…” Man, I could do an entire post on Bob Marley music alone…”Positive Vibration”, “Redemption Song”…great ones.

Budapest Philharmonic Orchestra – this is like a palette cleanser…I think Kendra put this on my playlist.

Bob Marley – Yes, I know I just mentioned Bob Marley, but at theMangoTimes it deserves double mention. Every time “Jamming” comes on, I get a little jump in my step… “and I hope you like jammin too!”

Quietly making noise mon!
Fletch

Roadside Memorials, the Mothership

It has been a while since I’ve made any comments on Roadside Memorials, but my dislike for them has not diminished in at all.

My folks were traveling these past few weeks throughout the Southwest US. Instead of returning home with normal treasures, my parents brought me a photograph of this beauty somewhere along the highway in Arizona. They knew they would get a reaction out of me and they were pretty darn sure it would be reported immediately on theMangoTimes.

This is the grand-daddy of all memorials. A building? A cast iron gate and matching cast iron cross? They put some serious dough into this one. The concrete/wooden cross that I drive by every morning is nothing compared to this shrine. Notice a few things: first, the red warning signs are hard to read in this scan, but it says: Fire Danger – Do Not Put Flowers (in two languages). And, yes…those are flowers hanging on the gate.
Second, notice the sign to the right, it says “No Dumping”…unless of course you are dumping concrete and building materials to make a memorial.
Third, notice how the property owner or county has fenced around this memorial, so as not to fence right through it. I’m surprised they didn’t petition the landowner for electric and water, so they could keep this thing lit up at night.

Note to my friends…when I die…no shrines, no memorials, no teddy bears, no Jesus candles…

Quietly making noise,
Fletch

Big Words from the Lone Star State

I mentioned in my last post that I spent a few days in San Antonio. One of my favorite stops was worshipping at Covenant of Grace church. Over the past few months, I’ve been getting to know the pastor of that church (mostly through the email, blogs and facebook, but also through some food-filled discussions!).

He’s a perceptive guy and likes to call it like he sees it. This morning he had this to say on his blog (Equipping the Saints):

“Throughout Scripture we find that those weighed down by sin are shown overwhelming grace while the self-righteous and unremorseful sinful brethren are forcefully rebuked. Yet in our churches it is not uncommon to see sinners rejected (after all they might corrupt us and our children) and self-righteousness celebrated – is it possible that we’ve gotten things backwards?”
Pastor Dirk Russell

Love it Dirk! You could be a guest editor for theMangoTimes with straight-forward words like those, keep up the good work!

Quietly making noise,
Fletch

March Update

January/February/March
theMT took an hiatus while the last three months flew by…once again our plans were dramatically halted. This time it was a squiggly little appendix that exploded in Caroline’s belly. Along the way we’ve celebrated a few birthdays, eaten a bunch of good food, listened to some great tunes, took a few trips, and I can’t believe we are knocking on the beginning of April – phew!

The Concert
Jon Troast returned for a second living room concert. This one was inside our house and we tallied about 125 guests in our living room/dining room/entry way. The highlight of the evening was getting a live performance of The Andy Song – take a listen! Jon played several of his favorites and introduced us to his new album – Living Room. If you haven’t had a chance to hear his new album, give it a listen and then give it a purchase! I guarantee that if you like theMangoTimes, then you will LOVE Jon’s music. His music is what theMT is all about. Great stuff as always from our favorite travelling musician!


Furniture removed from the dining/living rooms


Jon packs them in and right up the stairs!


They paid extra for the balcony seats

Birthdays
Thomas the Tank Engine chugged in to celebrate Christian’s third birthday. This particular birthday lasted about a week as we had several days to prepare for the party and several days to rehash the details of the party he had. :)
Hayden and Nate turned 17 and 15 last week and we had what felt like a weekend of “constanteenagers” through our home. The cupboards were bare by Sunday night, but we enjoyed having this migrating mass of teens through our place.


Turning Three at In-n-Out

The Olympics
Did you know that most of life stops in the MangoHouse when the Olympics begin? We reconnected satellite television. We adjusted the bedtimes of our children. We became experts on bobsled ergonomics, we learned the Canadian national anthem, and suddenly started throwing around terms like McTwist.


Photo taken on the opening day of the games!

Personally, I would stop whatever I was doing to watch Apolo Ohno skate and suddenly found myself at odds with the entire nation of South Korea during short track competition.


I won a gold medal for crab consumption with my Apolo beard!

San Antonio, TX
I had the opportunity to travel to San Antonio, Texas to see our good friend Nathan Davis graduate from USAF basic military training at Lackland AFB.


Congratulations to Airmen Nathan Davis

It was my first experience watching a military graduation and I was quite impressed with the precision and training provided in the USAF. Nathan graduated with honors which allowed him freedom all weekend to spend time with his family and friends. I enjoyed taking in the sights around San Antonio with him and I am excited to see what God has in store for this young man as he begins his career in the miliatry!

The rest of the time in San Antonio was visiting with the good people at Covenant of Grace Church. Although we have only met them a few times in real life, God has orchestrated a fun connection for our family with the Warren, Russell and Slaughter families. I was treated to some warm fellowship, tasty bbq and joyful worship with their families.

Napa Valley
One of my favorite things about being a dentist is the opportunity to travel for education. This year my implant study-club traveled to Calistoga in the Napa Valley Wine Country. On the way there, we stopped in at Wine Wizards to pay homage to our first place of employment as a young married couple.


The Wiz, Stockton, CA

The rest of the weekend was spent at a newer spa/resort called Solage (recommended if you are looking for a leisure getaway in the Napa Valley). It provided a few days of great retreat and relaxation. We slept in late, we ate well, we read, we walked and we enjoyed the beauty of spring time in the wine country.


Kendra’s New Home


Lunch for two at Bouchon in Yountville!

Potty Training, Spring Break, Weight Loss, Home Made Music and a whole bunch of Beer
To wrap things up in this issue of theMT, let me touch on a few small things happening around Mangoland lately.
Houston, We Have Liftoff!: While I was gone in San Antonio, Kendra decided to potty train Christian. We have gone through a few bags of Jelly Bellies and he’s doing very well at keeping up his end of the deal. He requires a full bathroom inspection prior to each “sit down” (beginning signs of OCD maybe?), but it is working!
Kids Gone Wild!: We are taking a week off from school and allowing the kids to travel down to Palm Springs and the beaches of Mexico for Spring Break with the rest of the California teenagers and college students…well, not really…but Kendra and I would like to do that.
Biggest Loser: Did I mention that my wife is wasting away to nothing? She is a workout machine and serving up delightful menus at the same time. I am giving up my membership in the SLC (sedentary lifestyle club) and joining her on a goal to drop a few pounds (actually more than a few pounds…come to think of it, I could probably lose enough weight for an entire person) and get our bodies more active. She is already ridiculously thin, but our goal: bikinis and board shorts on the beach in Maui. Well, not really…but I would personally prefer to look more like a surfer and less like a tiki idol or Buddha.
Homemade Music: The boys have been playing a lot of live music lately. Nate is playing the guitar very well (doing his best to mimic Lennon or Cash). We purchased Hayden a djembe drum, so we are waiting to see what he can pound out on that. Along with their buddy JP, we’ve enjoyed hearing and seeing them play in a few venues.

Tasty Suds: Fish Hook Brewery has now successfully brewed and bottled Red Ale, Pale Ale, Cream Ale, Blueberry Wheat, and a tasty Holiday Ale that provided some Christmas cheer for a few good folks! If you are in the area, please swing by for a sampling! Fish Hook Brewery: One sip and you are hooked!

Lastly, publication of theMangoTimes will be directly affected by the final episodes of the television show LOST. Sorry, but I have to line up my priorities right now. After six years, Jack, Kate, Hurley, Sawyer, and the rest of the Losties are making it off the island…or are they? The boys and I are faithful devotees to the final episodes (don’t call between 10-11PM on Tuesday nights). And…save your comments Kendra…you’ve made your point loud and clear!

Missed you all and I’m glad to be back…

Quietly making noise,
Fletch

She’s Home!


Caroline Joy (minus her appendix!)

After 21 days in the hospital, we were very excited to hear the surgeon say we could go home a day earlier then expected! Thanks Dr. Tam for the great surprise!

Praise the Lord with us for His healing hand as He used surgeries, scans, doctors, nurses, drains, and bags upon bags of antibiotics to help restore our little girl!

How many people does it take to help care for a sick eight year old? A quick thank you to the following folks:
Doctors: Tam, Clark, Olson, Barry, Blankenship, Terzo, McGrew, Lenser, Morris, Im, Imanaka, Tran, Liu, Hung, Lin, Montes
ER Room: Gayle, Kit, Jessica, Jessica, Dan
ICU: Trina, Gemma, Thuy, Lorie, Kelly(daytime), Kelly(nighttime), Dama, Sherry, Hilary, Karen, Margaret
Peds: Bianca, Jessica, Amanda, Rossie, Surinder, Elizabeth
…and everyone else that I forgot to mention…I tried to write down all of your names!


Surrounded by her biggest fans!

Quietly making noise,
Fletch

Friday Night Update


“Eye See You”

Hello from the ICU! That’s right…you heard me…I said it…the Intensive Care Unit. The exact same room that we left three days ago. More on that below…

I appreciate all the communication and requests for updates, thank you for loving my little girl through prayer…it has been one very long afternoon/evening. Caroline went in for surgery at 3PM. It was a very positive experience. We had a great pre-surgical discussion with both her primary surgeon and her “interventional radiologist.” He showed us that the fluid had again shrunk in size, but was still large enough to attempt to drain. They were both super confident, light-hearted and very encouraging as we talked.

Her surgery lasted about an hour and a half. Results were mixed. They had no complications getting to the pocket of fluid, but it was too thick to drain enough with the tube size they needed to use. :( They are hoping the fluid will liquify and drain in the next few days.

Now she has two drains leaving her side and belly. They are uncomfortable, but they are both working. As soon as the infections clear, she will get them removed. It could be many weeks! Yikesy!

Recovery tonight has been a little sketchy. Her heart rate and breathing have been way too fast, so the surgeon ordered her to the ICU for observation. Her spirits and attitude are great though! (On a personal note, this has become my home away from home and I’m enjoying my nights here with private nurse care…except for the 5am wake-up call from one of her doctors, it is not a bad gig…tonight it’s Nurse Margaret, she’s not Nurse Kelly, but Caroline and I really like her).

So…
We are working on breathing and trying to get out of here.
We are praying for good blood tests each day.
We are praying for a stabilized temperature.
We are praying for her ability to eat and keep food down.
We are praying for effective drains

God was very good to us today! We are thankful for all the ways he cared for our little girl!

Hope that answers it. Let me know if you have any questions.

Quietly making noise,
Fletch (and Caroline!)

Friday Plan

King Solomon said, “Plans go wrong for lack of advice; many advisers bring success.” – Proverbs 15:22

We just hit the two-week mark in the hospital. Pesky little appendix!

The first drain procedure on Tuesday has been successful. Caroline has been more comfortable and her infection has been slowing. The only problem is that it is not slowing fast enough or completely. So, the surgeon has decided to go after the second large collection of fluid in her lower abdomen. This is the trickier of the two areas I mentioned.

After speaking with several “Interventional Radiologists” the conclusion was made that the least invasive approach was to go after it with a catheter drain. Risky? Yes. After weighing all the risks, this option contains the least amount of risks and the greatest chance for success. In reality, surgical risk is somewhat determined by the experience of the surgeon. The IR doctor performing today’s procedure was confident that this is a routine procedure. Tuesday’s IR doctor, based on experience, was much less confident in his ability.

Her drain procedure is scheduled for this afternoon and our prayer request is simple:
Pray for a safe, effective procedure
Pray for her as she goes under anesthesia for a fourth time in two weeks.
Pray for this to work

On a very happy note, we asked the doctor to give us wheelchair privledges, so we get to cruise around the hospital and even bring the brothers and sisters in to see her…big pre-surgical boost for Caroline!

Quietly making noise,
Fletch

A Sports Analogy and TOGOs at 21!

There is not a lot planned today while we wait to meet with Caroline’s surgeon this evening. In the arena of healing, we sit as spectators and watch as her body fights against bacteria and we check the medical scoreboard regularly to see who is winning. If the fever drops and the body leads, we will continue to watch the game. If the fever rises and the bacteria take over, we will bring in the second string (surgery). We’ll keep you posted on the score…

togos-old.gifHowever, there is more to talk about today…because it was 21 years ago today that I asked the young freshman Kendra Hopper to join me on our first date. Apparently, I was a big spender back in the day and took her to TOGOs for “Turkey/Avocado on Wheat.” It must have worked, because sometime later I told her I loved her “and now we have eight kids.”

Kenj…thanks for saying yes to a turkey (sandwich)! Let’s keep it crazy, but serious!

Quietly making noise,
Fletch